To celebrate Don's life and contribution to the puppetry
community, Shirley Green has kindly written the following
tribute.
Don Kirk, My Friend
Don
was my friend but I would have to correctly say "our
friend," or even more correctly, "everyone's
friend." There was never a person who Don ever met
that wasn't instantly his friend. If he was unhappy about
a situation or didn't feel well, you wouldn't have known
it, because he never complained and was always cheerful
with a smile on his face.
Don was such a rare human being--never talked about himself
like the majority of performers in the arts. It was never
"I." It was always with an interest in what
the other person was doing or had to say. Self-importance
was never his style. However, if any one ever had reason
to feel pride in his life's work it was Don.
He
was born in Indiana but grew up in Chicago. He served
in the Army and then went to broadcasting school to study
Communications. He met Connie, his wife of 56 years, while
he was was working as a radio announcer in Coshocton,
Ohio, at WTNS. Don and Connie moved to Columbus, where
Don worked as a radio announcer at WCOL. Later he sold
insurance before forming "Kirk's Puppets" in
the 1970's. Don and Connie were a team and spent many
years writing and performing puppet shows for schools,
parties, conferences, Renaissance Fairs, and other events
all around Ohio. Their work was so well known and respected
throughout the performing arts community that it quickly
became a full-time profession, and continued up to their
retirement in 2003 due to Don's back problems. They traveled
and performed all over Ohio and--as all puppeteers know--to
set up a puppet stage requires a good back. When they
designed and built their portable stage, it was back before
the light-weight materials now in use were available,
so it was all of wood. If there ever was a sad time for
Don and Connie, and loss to the art of puppetry in Ohio,
it was at his untimely retirement.
Many will remember their versions
of the classic "Punch and Judy Show" and their
beloved joke-telling dog "Old Rug". Old Rug was
a basset hound type dog that came into being years ago when
they performed shows on the third floor of the old Worthington
Inn, with Bill Bauer and Alice Rhodes. Rug's name then was
Old Worthy (named for the Inn) but when they went off on
their own, he became Old Rug. He had long floppy ears, a
shiny nose, and soulful eyes. I was clowning in those days
and occasionally would be performing at the same festival
or fund raiser as they were, so I was lucky to get to see
them work. Old Rug was a riot. Before the main show, old
Rug would warm up the audience. Connie would be standing
next to the stage with mike in hand, talking to the children.
Suddenly, Old Rug would show up somewhere around the stage--usually
on top of it, and carry on a very funny conversation with
Connie and the kids. Their most popular show was "The
Three Little Pigs." Don was a perfectionist and no
one was ever aware of his arm, and his hand in the puppet.
Don wrote all their own material and there was never any
recorded script. It was all the live voices of Don and Connie.
Don also toned down the shows so as not to make children
cry, like one time when a little boy was traumatized when
the crocodile tried to eat Punch. Don never used the crocodile
again.
The only way to describe Don's voice would be warm, friendly,
and smooth as honey. Don was also an active member of the
Grandparents Living Theater, where he wrote and performed
in dramatic, comedic, and musical theater. His writing included
several old-time radio spoofs, and he had a life-long interest
in humorous and whimsical poetry for his own pleasure. In
recent years Don returned to the world of radio with a monthly
broadcast on Voice Corps radio, in which he selected a wide
range of music, poetry, and fiction that reflected his own
broad taste in the arts.
Don was a long-time member of the Puppeteers of America
and the Columbus Puppetry Guild, and will be greatly missed.
No matter how much in pain Don was in recent years, the
Guild could always count on him to perform his"Stone
Soup" for variety shows. Don had a gift of loving children,
and they responded back with interest and laughter. The
children never felt intimidated or frightened.
Don and Connie have two sons of which they have been very
proud. They obviously passed along their talent genes to
both of them. Daniel and David both are well-known authors
and illustrators of children's books. David's Miss Spider
books are now a TV series, "Miss Spider's Sunny Patch
Friends," which is the most colorful and best television
show that I've ever seen. Among Daniel's over twenty published
books is Dogs Rule that has a CD that comes with
it of songs he composed and sings. Don was so terribly proud
of his sons' achievements and just beamed when he shared
them with the Guild members. Don and Connie also have six
lovely grandchildren.
This has been the first time I have shed tears from hearing
of a death
since my husband died seven years ago. That is how fond
I was of Don Kirk.
--Shirley
Green